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Where Should I start?

Choosing to pursue adoption is something that requires a lot of prayer and thought. Beginning the process can be extremely overwhelming, but we've tried to simplify things for you! Below, you'll find two different websites that can help you narrow down where to start your adoption journey. If wanting to pursue foster to adopt services through the state, click the link on the left. If wanting to pursue other methods of adoption, such as through an adoption agency, click the link on the right. As with any major decision, adoption requires lots and LOTS of research--including determining which method of adoption is the right avenue for you and your family.

If using Foster/Adopt State Services...

If NOT using Foster/Adopt state services

Where to Start

Methods Of Adoption

Adoption isn't something that is black and white. There are SO MANY different types of adoptions, as well as many different avenues to pursue (including some you probably didn't even know existed). There are two umbrellas in which adoptions fall; domestic and international. Check out the descriptions below to learn more about them.

DOMESTIC ADOPTION

DEFINITION: Adoption that occurs when the adoptive parents, birth parents, and the child live within the United States. The entire process adoption process, including initial placement, background checks, consent and finalization, is regulated by State laws and policies.1

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BRANCHES OF DOMESTIC ADOPTION

KINSHIP - A type of adoption in which people adopt members of their own families.2 

Average Cost - Less than $10,000

What's Required - Legal Fees including preparation of legal documents, court appearances, etc., court ordered filing fees, home study, criminal history search/FBI fingerprinting, Attorney ad Litem for the child to be adopted, obtaining of a new birth certificate after adoption.3 | All of this can be arranged through a family law attorney.

CHILD WELFARE/FOSTER CARE SYSTEM - The adoption of children who are under the custody of the State. Many of them have been removed to their homes due to abuse, neglect, or abandonment & are therefore taken into Foster Care. Please know that the primary goal of the Foster Care system is ALWAYS family reunification first, and adoption placement is used as a last resort.

Average Cost - $0 - $5,000

What's Required - Application, home study, criminal history background check, abuse/neglect check, free training, relative & non-relative references, at least 21 years of age, proof of financial stability, CPR/First Aid certification, Agreement to non-physical discipline policy, no more than 6 children in the home, fire, health and safety inspections of the home, vaccinating all pets & proof of vaccinations, TB testing as required by the local Health Department

AGENCY - An adoption agency completes the entire adoption process from beginning to end, including helping the family find the right adoption opportunity with a pregnant mother through advertising and networking.5

Average Cost - Many variables, so hard to pinpoint, but typically $50,000-$65,000

What's Required - Application with agency, criminal history background check, home study, references, proof of financial stability, signed contract typically with a non-refundable deposit, transparency with background and lifestyle information, be at least 21-years of age, show proof of marriage and/or divorce (if applicable), create a family profile for potential birth mothers.

INDEPENDENT - An independent adoption is a DIY adoption of sorts. It’s a non agency adoption in which the adoptive parents work directly with an adoption attorney to complete the process.7

Average Cost - Cheaper than agency, typically between $7,500-$15,000 (dependent upon certain variables)

What's Required - Legal Fees including preparation of legal documents, court appearances, etc., court ordered filing fees, home study, criminal history search/FBI fingerprinting, Attorney ad Litem for the child to be adopted, obtaining of a new birth certificate after adoption. All of this is arranged through a family law attorney.

EMBRYO - Embryo adoption is a form of adoption that allows the adoptive mother to carry her genetically unrelated child and experience pregnancy and delivery. Rather than adopting an infant that is already born, adoptive parents begin the process nine months earlier by adopting a frozen embryo donated by a couple who has been through in vitro fertilization.8

Average Cost - $10,000-$15,000

What's Required - Agency fees, legal fees, embryo shipping (if applicable), matching services, medical screening, counseling, a home study, and frozen embryo transfer, including fees for medications associated with the transfer.

INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION

DEFINITION: International adoption, is the adoption of a child from another country outside of the United States.9

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Average Cost - Typically between $30,000-$60,000

What's Required - You and your spouse must be U.S. Citizens and file to adopt the child together (even if separated), must be at least 25 if not married, legal fees, international agency fees, travel expenses, international home study, background check, fingerprinting and other documentation.

Common Countries Adopted From - China, Russia, India, Ukraine, South Korea, Uganda, Ethiopia, Haiti, and Colombia

Let's talk adoption tax credit...

WHAT IS IT?

"Tax benefits for adoption include both a tax credit for qualified adoption expenses paid to adopt an eligible child and an exclusion from income for employer-provided adoption assistance. The credit is nonrefundable, which means it's limited to your tax liability for the year. However, any credit in excess of your tax liability may be carried forward for up to five years." (source: IRS.gov)

HOW MUCH CAN I RECEIVE?

"The maximum amount (dollar limit) for 2023 is $15,950 per child." (source: IRS.gov)

IS THERE AN INCOME CAP?

"The income limit on the adoption credit or exclusion is based on your modified adjusted gross income (MAGI). If your MAGI amount for 2022 falls between certain dollar limits, your credit or exclusion is subject to a phaseout (is reduced or eliminated). For tax year 2022, the MAGI phaseout begins at $223,410 and ends at $263,410. Thus, if your MAGI amount is below $223,410 for 2022, your credit or exclusion won't be affected by the MAGI phaseout, whereas if your MAGI amount for 2022 is $263,410 or more, your credit or exclusion will be zero." (source: IRS.gov)

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In dummy terms, if you're MAGI is below $223,410...you are eligible for the full amount. Between $223,410 & $263,410 you're eligible for a reduced amount. Above $263,410 is ineligible for the adoption tax credit.

WHAT TAX YEAR CAN I CLAIM THE CREDIT?

The tax year for which you can claim the credit depends on the following:

  • When the expenses are paid;

  • Whether it's a domestic adoption or a foreign adoption; and

  • When, if ever, the adoption was finalized.

Generally, the credit is allowable whether the adoption is domestic or foreign. However, the timing rules for claiming the credit for qualified adoption expenses differ, depending on the type of adoption.

  • domestic adoption is the adoption of a U.S. child (an eligible child who is a citizen or resident of the U.S. or its possessions before the adoption effort begins). Qualified adoption expenses paid before the year the adoption becomes final are allowable as a credit for the tax year following the year of payment (even if the adoption is never finalized and even if an eligible child was never identified).

  • foreign adoption is the adoption of an eligible child who isn't yet a citizen or resident of the U.S. or its possessions before the adoption effort begins. Qualified adoption expenses paid before and during the year are allowable as a credit for the year when it becomes final. 

Once an adoption becomes final, and subject to the dollar limitation, qualified adoption expenses paid during or after the year of finality are allowable as a credit for the year of payment, whether the adoption is foreign or domestic.

As a result of the timing rules, qualified adoption expenses allowable in the current year may include expenses paid in a former year or years. (source: IRS.gov)

FOR FULL DETAILS & EXAMPLES ON THE INCOME CAP/DOLLAR LIMITS, MORE INFORMATION REGARDING THE ADOPTION TAX CREDIT, & FORMS TO FILE FOR THE ADOPTION TAX CREDIT, PLEASE VISIT THE FOLLOWING LINK: 

https://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc607

Frequently Asked Questions

HOW DO I START THE ADOPTION PROCESS?

 

As we've mentioned before, adoption isn't black & white, and neither is the starting process. Beginning your adoption journey begins with A LOT of research. This includes identifying which avenue is right for you and your family. Do you feel called to adopt domestically or internationally? Is an adoption agency the route you want to go, or do you want to adopt through the state?

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We highly recommend making a pro/con list and seeing where your answers take you. From there, you can begin to narrow down which adoption avenue would best suit your needs.

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Next steps would be to research different adoption agencies (international, domestic & DFPS) and book an informational meeting. From there, you'll get more detailed answers on cost, next steps, adoption requirements & more. 

DO YOU HAVE TO BE MARRIED TO ADOPT?

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Different agencies have different requirements, but overall, you do NOT have to be married to adopt a child in the State of Texas.

HOW MUCH DOES ADOPTION COST?​

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This is sort of a difficult question to answer, because there are so many variables that determine adoption cost. The range can be $0 to upwards of $70,000. For a better idea of what you'll be looking at, refer to the section above that outlines adoption types & associated costs.

Methods of Adotion
Cost of Adoption
Adoption Tax Credit
FAQ

SOURCES

1 "State Statutes Search." Child Welfare Information Gateway, https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/adoption/laws/laws-state/domestic/.

 

2 The 5 types of US adoption. Embrace Families. (2021, January 7). Retrieved March 21, 2022, from https://embracefamilies.org/the-5-types-of-us-adoption

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3 Costs of adoption. The Perrone Law Firm, PLLC. (2021, September 17). Retrieved March 21, 2022, from https://www.perronelawfirm.com/costs-of-adoption/

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4 Texas Foster Care Adoption Guide. Considering Adoption. (2023). Retrieved February 2, 2023, from https://consideringadoption.com/adoptions-by-state/texas/adopt/texas-foster-care-adoption/

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5 Comparing the Costs of Domestic, International and Foster Care Adoption. (2023). Retrieved February 3, 2023, from https://www.americanadoptions.com/adopt/the_costs_of_adopting

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6 Understanding Adoption Costs in Texas. (2023). Retrieved February 3, 2023, from https://www.americanadoptionsoftexas.com/adopt/adoption-costs-TX

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7 Agency Vs Independent Adoption. (2023). Retrieved February 3, 2023, from https://adoptionagencies.com/adoption-agency-information/agency-vs-independent-adoption/

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8 What Is Embryo Adoption. (2023). Retrieved February 3, 2023, from https://consideringadoption.com/adopting/types-of-adoption/what-is-embryo-adoption/

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9 What Is International Adoption. (2023). Retrieved February 3, 2023 from https://consideringadoption.com/adopting/types-of-adoption/what-is-international-adoption/

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